Dominant A person who consensually takes power, authority or control in a relationship, scene or activity.
Domme A female-identifying person who consensually takes power, authority, or control in a relationship, scene or activity.
Switch A person who participates in relationships, scenes and activities as a Top/Dominant or bottom/submissive depending on their mood, partner or the situation. Some switches enjoy changing their power dynamic during the scene.
Submissive A person who agrees to submit or give up control in a relationship, scene or activity.
Master A person who consensually takes ownership over someone who they are in a relationship with.
Mistress A person who consensually takes ownership over someone who they are in a relationship with.
slave A person who agrees to give total control to someone who they are in a relationship with.
TopA person who is consensually in control of the action during kinky activities.
BottomA person who agrees to give up control or receives the stimulation during kinky activities that may or may not include submission.
DisciplinarianA person who believes in or practices firm discipline.
SadistA person who enjoys inflicting humiliation or pain consensually on someone, whether it’s emotionally, mentally or physically.
MasochistA person who enjoys receiving pain or humiliation consensually, whether it’s emotionally, mentally or physically.
SadomasochistA person who engages in sadism and/or masochism.
KinksterA person who doesn’t want to define their role while engaging in power exchange, role play, sadomasochism, cross-dressing and/or fetishes.
FetishistA person who is aroused by objects or nonsexual parts of the body.
SwingerA person who has consensual sex with other people within and outside of their committed relationships.
HedonistA person with a strong focus on the pursuit of pleasure.
ExhibitionistA person who enjoys displaying themselves in a public or semi-public manner in order to attract attention.
VoyeurA person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual context, without engaging with them.
SensualistA person with a strong focus on the pursuit of sensual pleasures and interests
PrincessA person who requires a very particular treatment of praise, care, and attention.
CougarAn older woman who is primarily interested in men significantly younger than her.
SlutA person who embraces the freedom to engage in sexual activity in accordance with their desires, with one or multiple partners, regardless of conventional values.
DollA person who enjoys objectification and wants to be transformed through one’s own and/or outside forces into a living doll.
ToyOne who is treated and played with like a toy instead of a person.
sissyA male-identified person who engages in feminization and sometimes humiliation in order to reach a different emotional or mental state.
RiggerA person who practices the art of bondage, usually with rope.
Rope TopA person who performs rope bondage.
Rope BottomA person who receives rope bondage.
Rope BunnyA popular alternative for Rope Bottom, often a model for performance, photography or demos.
SpankoA person with a strong interest in spanking and/or being spanked.
SpankerA person who enjoys spanking others.
SpankeeA person who enjoys being spanked.
LeathermanA person who has a fetish for leather and/or espouses the traditions and protocols of a traditional style of BDSM that arose out of the combination of male homosexual BDSM with motorcycle clubs (“biker culture”) after World War II.
LeatherwomanA person who has a fetish for leather and/or espouses the traditions and protocols of a traditional style of BDSM that arose out of the combination of male homosexual BDSM with motorcycle clubs (“biker culture”) after World War II.
PrimalA person who rejects rules, traditions and protocols and prefers to self-define their role, often associated with foundational and/or animalistic instincts, behaviors, and desires.
Primal PredatorA primal who enjoys hunting and attempting to capture prey.
Primal PreyA primal who enjoys being hunted by a predator.
BullA man who engages in sex with a woman whose partner enjoys the cuckold dynamic.
HotwifeA married woman who pursues sexual relationships with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities, consents to them, and gets pleasure from them.
CuckoldressA woman who may pursues sexual relationships with other people than her partner. Oftentimes she is sexually dominant to her partner and her outside play is to reinforce her dominance. Her partner has full knowledge of her activities.
cuckoldA man who enjoys the humiliation and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.
cuckqueanA woman who enjoys the humiliation and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.
FeminizerA person who likes to transform men into feminine beings by modifying their appearance, behavior and mindset.
AgeplayerA person who engages in role-play where a different age is taken on by one or more of the participants.
DaddyA person who is nurturing and/or paternal in a relationship.
MommyA person who is nurturing and/or maternal role in a relationship.
BigA person who is nurturing and/or parental in a relationship dynamic.
MiddleA person who identifies with or exhibits a younger mindset and/or behaviors, but feels more like a teen or pre-teen than a little.
LittleA person who identifies with or enjoys exhibiting a child-like mindset and/or behaviors. Their relationships may or may not include a power exchange component.
BratA person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship.
babygirlA person who seeks a parental and/or nurturing figure in a relationship, with some identifying as or role playing as a young girl. Also used as an endearment for a female-identified submissive.
babyboyA person who seeks a parental and/or nurturing figure in a relationship, with some identifying as or role playing as a young boy. Also used as an endearment for a male-identified submissive.
HandlerA person with a dominant-role in a pet-play dynamic.
FurryA person who identifies with a particular anthropomorphic animal or creature, often wearing costumes or tokens representing the animal.
petA person who may or may not identify with animal play who is treated like they are beloved and owned.
kittenA person who enjoys roleplay as a kitten or cat.
pupA person who enjoys roleplay as a puppy or dog.
ponyA person who enjoys roleplay as a pony or horse.
Drag KingA person, typically female-identified, who dresses in clothing of the opposite sex and is often exaggerated for the purpose of entertainment or fashion.
Drag QueenA person, typically male-identified, who dresses in clothing of the opposite sex and is often exaggerated for the purpose of entertainment or fashion.
EvolvingA person who is undergoing gradual change.
ExploringA person who is on an open journey through the world of kink.
VanillaA person with without any identified kinks or fetishes.
MaleA person who has the identity and characteristics of a man.
FemaleA person who has the identity and characteristics of a woman.
Crossdresser/TransvestiteA person who likes to dress and act in a style or manner traditionally associated with the opposite gender.
TransgenderA person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their biological sex assigned at birth.
TranssexualA person who does not identify with the sex they were born with and is transitioning to the gender with which they identity, usually (but not always) with medical assistance.
Trans ManA person who is transgender or transsexual and identifies as a man.
Trans WomanA person who is transgender or transsexual and identifies as a woman.
IntersexA person who is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male.
ButchA person who is typically female-identified whose social and relationship roles are perceived by many as being masculine, often having a lesbian, gay, or queer orientation.
FemmeA person who has an appearance or other characteristics traditionally seen as feminine, often having a lesbian, gay, or queer orientation.
Non-BinaryA person whose gender identity falls outside the male-female binary.
Gender FluidA person who fluctuates between more than one gender, or between having a gender and not having one.
GenderqueerA person whose gender identity falls outside the male-female binary.
AndrogynousA person who identifies with both feminine and masculine characteristics.
AgenderA person who does not identify as having a gender.
Bi-genderA person who identifies with two or more genders, either at the same or different times.
Two-SpiritA person who has both a masculine and a feminine spirit. Used by Indigenous First Nations and Native American peoples to describe their sexual, gender and/or spiritual identity.
StraightA person who is attracted to the opposite gender in a sexual and/or romantic way.
HeteroflexibleA person who identifies as primarily straight but can occasionally find the same gender appealing in a sexual and/or romantic way.
BisexualA person who is attracted romantically and/or sexually to another gender as well as their own.
Bi-curiousA person who is curious about being sexual with someone of the same sex, but does not consider themselves to be bisexual.
HomoflexibleA person who identifies as primarily homosexual but can occasionally find the opposite gender appealing in a sexual and/or romantic way.
GayA male who is primarily attracted to other males in a sexual and/or romantic way.
LesbianA female who is primarily attracted to other females in a sexual and/or romantic way.
QueerA person who doesn’t identify with traditional categories around gender identity and sexual orientation.
Pansexual A person who is attracted to and may form sexual and romantic relationships with males, females, and people who identify outside the gender binary.
Demisexual AsexualA person who has low or absent sexual interest or desire for people of any gender.
Greysexual/Sapiosexual/Fluctuating/Evolving A person whose sexual responsiveness is changing/evolving.